And Physical Abuse
I have been a victim of mental & physical abuse
at the hands of my ex-partner, namely
John- aka ... ...Oaky Wood,
I have mentioned him by name because it is all he deserves
and to let people know exactly what he's like, and what he's capable of. Normally
I would not have named names, but because I was so badly treated by
him, I decided to. He is such a cruel & heartless man
& he will never change.
He pretends to be someone he's not,& has most people fooled by his pretense of being a loving & caring person
which he is not,
as the only one he looks out for is number one.
Quite some time after we split, he struck up a friendship with me
just to stop me moving on with my life,& leading me to believe that he cared for me, which wasn't true, as all he wanted was the sexual side, and then he'd ignore me the rest of the time.
I was indeed a fool for falling for it a second time & can fully understand
anyone else who falls the same way, as he first gets you on side
with his false charm and then the abuse starts.
Playing with my emotions is bad enough, but physically
assaulting me is something that know one should put up
with. but in his mind he believes everyone should accept
it, but this time I didn't just accept it, I reported him to
the police, now I'm the bad guy, even though I didn't
take it any further, which I could have done, but I didn't want to
be bothered with courts etc...so I dropped the charges.
It was more to teach him a lesson, that he can't just go abusing
people that way & expect to get away with it entirely.
He should think himself lucky that I dropped it.
This so called friendship, wasn't even a friendship, he was using me, drawing me close & then pushing me away.
It's as if he was punishing me in some way, for perhaps not always agreeing with
him, as he always had to be right, and no one else should have an opinion,
unless it matched his.
I could never be myself, and speak my mind for fear of him going off on one,&
quite often he did, so it was a case of ..put up with it or else.
If anyone dared to disagree with him he would get so very
angry & lash out, both verbally & physically.
Abusive behaviour is all he knows
This is the way he's lived his life ,always hurting people around
him who care, & always blaming others for his unreasonable
thus making everyone else feel guilty.
He will never be capable of love, because he doesn't feel love, or even understand the meaning of
it. He gets bored with just one person after a time, so then
moves on to the next . He will always be a player, using & abusing
He is such a arrogant
person, with a bad attitude
How can anyone respect him ... When he
has know respect for anyone else, not even himself !
My heart goes out to anyone who gets emotionally
involved with him, because in time he will do exactly the same to
I don't care what he thinks of me for printing this
story, because he means nothing to me...NOT ANYMORE!